The Valuable Lesson of Patience: What I’m learning from My Father- Sanni Inuwa Baba

 Throughout our lives, we encounter various individuals who leave a lasting impact on us. In my case, it is my father who is playing a pivotal role in shaping my perspective and imparting valuable life lessons. Among the many virtues he is instilling in me, the one that stands out prominently is the virtue of patience. Through his words, actions, and unwavering positive outlook, my father is teaching me the true essence of patience and its profound influence on our lives.

During my younger years, impatience was a defining characteristic of my personality. I possessed an unwavering belief that I could achieve anything instantly, reaching for the stars without considering the journey it took to get there. However, as I’m spending more time with my father, who is my confidant and closest companion, we engage in deep conversations about life, encompassing personal and Spiritual aspects.

These conversations with my father gradually shifted my perspective on life. I began to understand the concept of acceptance and the profound truth that "whatever will be, will be." It was through my father's gentle guidance and wise counsel that I started perceiving life in a different manner. He demonstrates, through his own actions and words, the importance of embracing patience in every aspect of life.

Above all else, it’s my father's unwavering patience that is living an indelible mark on my character. Observing how he speaks about patience and how he is exemplifying it in his daily life, I realized the immense power and value of this virtue. Whether faced with challenges or setbacks, my father remains steadfast, maintaining a calm and composed demeanor, believing that time would reveal the path forward.

Reflecting upon the influence my father is having on my life, I feel an overwhelming sense of gratitude to Almighty God. 

The rare privilege of having such a remarkable father figure in my life is a blessing I will forever cherish. Even in the face of adversity, my father's perspective remains focused on the positive. He possesses the ability to find the silver lining in any situation, allowing me to witness firsthand the transformative effects of a patient and optimistic mindset.

In the end, the lessons I’m learning from my father extends far beyond the mere concept of patience. His wisdom and guidance have shaped my character, instilling within me a deep appreciation for the virtues that make life meaningful. 

Through his unwavering patience, my father taught me the importance of embracing life's uncertainties, maintaining a positive outlook, and trusting that the journey is just as significant as the destination. I carry his teachings with me, forever grateful for the profound impact he continues to have on my life.